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Opinion | The Shame of What We’ve Done: Assessing Jews’ Responsibility for Israel’s Actions
The dominant self-conception of the Jewish story is innocence, repeated persecutions, and then redemption by creation of the Jewish nationalist State of Israel.
This narrative is critically examined in Peter Beinart’s new book,
Being Jewish After the Destruction of Gaza: A Reckoning.Beinart’s book says the maudlin story we Jews tell ourselves of our virtue and heroic endurance inoculates Jews from seeing Israel’s agency in creating the resistance it faces: “We must now tell a new story to answer the horror that a Jewish country has perpetrated… We are not history’s permanent virtuous victims.”
The predicted consequence of Jewish sovereignty in Palestine to Jews in “diaspora” is happening. Jews feel they are being scrutinized and called to account for Israel’s actions, on campuses and in the streets worldwide.
Beinart, former editor of
The New Republic, is now an editor-at-large of Jewish Currents, and a New York Times contributor.He has been in a 20-year progression of seeing, more and more sharply, the “Jewish and democratic” state of Israel as anti-democratic and incompatible with Jewish tradition.
He writes that support for a Jewish state has become “idolatry,” permitting endless killing, torture, and oppression of Palestinians “There is no limit. No matter how many Palestinians die, they do not tip the scales, because the value of a Palestinian is finite and the value of a Jewish state is infinite.”
Contemporary Jewish life is filled with that idolatry, he observes: “In most of the Jewish world today, rejecting Jewish statehood is a greater heresy than rejecting Judaism itself.”
The book attributes the horrors imposed on 2 million human beings in Gaza not only to the Israel Defense Forces (IDF) but to Jews: “Worshipping a country that elevates Jews over Palestinians replaces Judaism’s universal God—who makes special demands on Jews but cherishes all people–with a tribal deity that considers Jewish life precious and Palestinian life cheap.”
Beinart is not playing the peekaboo game of saying Jews are not responsible for Israel, and the other half of the time saying Israel is the Jewish State.
He’s not saying “all Jews,” but fairly saying “representative,” “mainstream” Jewish organizations worldwide are now Zionist. Anti-Zionist organizations are dissident.
He observes that many synagogues have an Israeli flag on the
bima (platform where the Torah is read) “and a prayer for Israel in the liturgy.”It was predicted and warned about, as the Zionist movement grew, that the effect of creating a Jewish nation-state would be Jews being seen in the light of that state’s actions.
The predicted consequence of Jewish sovereignty in Palestine to Jews in “diaspora” is happening. Jews feel they are being scrutinized and called to account for Israel’s actions, on campuses and in the streets worldwide.
Beinart places the Hamas violence of October 7, 2023 in context, as consistent with the history of suppressed peoples without peaceful means to contest their status, as is seen in slave revolts and anticolonial guerilla wars.
I note that Beinart’s thoughts are resonant with what, almost 100 years ago, historian and then-Zionist Hans Kohn
wrote of 1929 anti-Jewish riots after 12 years of Zionist colonization in Palestine under British authority:We pretend to be innocent victims. Of course the Arabs attacked us in August… They perpetrated all the barbaric acts that are characteristic of a colonial revolt… We have been in Palestine for 12 years [since the Balfour Declaration] without having even once made a serious attempt at seeking through negotiations the consent of the Indigenous people.
Israeli retribution since October 7, 2023 on the 2 million-plus population of Gaza and their means of life—homes, utilities, schools, universities, hospitals—has officially resulted in over 46,000 deaths and innumerable injuries directly from IDF attacks.
The medical journal
Lancetestimates deaths as likely much higher, counting “deaths from starvation, disease, or cold.”Most of the population of Gaza was made homeless, huddled in improvised shelters, pushed by IDF warnings from one “safe zone” to another, often then bombed.
Beinart’s book is an analysis of Zionist apologetics that are necessary to both regard oneself as moral and defend what Israel has done, from the 1947-49
Nakba—terroristic expulsion of Palestinian Arabs from their communities within present-day Israel—to Gaza in 2025.He denounces dehumanizing, demonizing, Zionist lies about Palestinian resistance: “These claims don’t withstand even modest scrutiny. They’re less arguments than talismans. They ward off dangerous emotions like grief and shame.”
Using the model of the dismantling of apartheid South Africa, he tries to envision what principles could heal Palestine
:The details matter, but they matter less than the underlying principles. Wherever they live together, Jews and Palestinians should live under the same law. And they should work to repair the injustices of the past. The Israelis who were made refugees on October 7 should be allowed to go home. And the Palestinians who were made refugees in 1948 should be allowed to go home. Historical wrongs can never be fully undone. But the more sincere the effort, the greater the reconciliation that ensues.
This would be a radical reconception of Jewish life in Palestine, that in abandoning the role of conquerors, Jews may live as Jewish Palestinians. He makes the point that whites relinquishing apartheid was a more peaceful process for South Africa than having it overthrown.
In the summary chapter of the book, Beinart says Israel’s conduct is from a heretical Jewish tendency to believe Jewish people are sacred, rather than people with extra obligations: “So what if a few dreamers in Moorish Spain or the Silesian shtetl [Eastern European Jewish village] consoled themselves with the idea that deep within us lies a special spark of the divine? They didn’t have the power to do anything about it.”
This self-deification, first proposed by an Israelite named Korach, who challenged Moses’ leadership, hadn’t mattered as much until the creation of “Jewish” national power: “All that changed with the creation of Israel. Only once Jews control a state with life-and-death power over millions of non-Jews does Korach’s claim of intrinsic Jewish sanctity become truly dangerous.”
Beinart calls for liberation for Jews from the Zionist doctrine that Jews are only victims, never victimizers: “We can lift the weight that oppressing Palestinians imposes on Jewish Israelis, and indirectly, on Jews around the world… We can lay down the burden of seeing ourselves as the perennial victims of a Jew-hating world.”
More than level of observance or denomination, the question of Zionism is going to be a fault line in Jewish fellowship, Beinart believes:
Remove Jewish statehood from Jewish identity and, for many Jews around the world, it’s not clear what is left. But the benefit of recognizing that Jews are not fundamentally different from other people is that it allows us to learn from their experience. Jewish exceptionalism is less exceptional than we think. We are not the only people to use a story of victimhood to justify supremacy.
Israel’s perpetual peril is the Arab population it has displaced but not exterminated. They are determined to redeem their birthright to live as freely in Palestine as Jews do.
Instead of conquest, Beinart proposes a model of restraint, cooperation, and respect—along a line of Jewish thinkers from Ahad Ha’am to Judah Magnes to Albert Einstein.
Many of the visions for Jewish settlement in Palestine were universalist and pacific.
In 1927, Zionist writer (and Chaim Weizmann protege) Maurice Samuel mused, in his book
I, The Jew, that Jewish civilization “for 60 generations” demonstrated “that neither conquest or oppression was necessary to its survival… a group can survive without mass murder.”Whether trauma or hubris allows Zionists in Israel and elsewhere to trust that model—finding the image of God even in their “enemies”—is the question.
As tensions in the Middle East continue to escalate, it is more important than ever to critically assess the role of Jews in Israel’s actions. The Israeli government’s policies and actions have been widely condemned by the international community, with many calling for accountability and justice.As Jews, we have a responsibility to speak out against the injustices committed by the Israeli government. It is not enough to simply stand by and watch as our fellow Jews perpetuate violence and oppression against the Palestinian people. We must take a stand and hold our own community accountable for their actions.
The continued occupation of Palestinian land, the systemic discrimination against Palestinian citizens of Israel, and the violence and human rights abuses committed by the Israeli military cannot be ignored. As Jews, we must acknowledge the role that our community plays in perpetuating these injustices and work towards creating a more just and equitable future for all peoples in the region.
It is time for us to confront the shame of what we have done and take a stand against the actions of the Israeli government. We must listen to the voices of the oppressed and marginalized and work towards a future where all people can live in peace and dignity. The time for silence is over – it is time to speak out and demand accountability for the injustices committed in our name.
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Moral Conflict by Professor Puzzle Games – “Most likely to” game that will have the family in hysterics. Players take turns to read out the cards a nominate the player using their whiteboard paddle. “Who’s most likely to claim to have been abducted by aliens?” Or “Who’s most likely to accidentally drop something in the toilet?” Set contains: 100 Question cards, 6 Whiteboard paddles, 6 Dry-wipe pens, and instructions. Part of the Professor Puzzle Games collection of unique family friendly party games.”
Moral Conflict by Professor Puzzle Games – “Most likely to” game that will have the family in hysterics.
Players take turns to read out the cards a nominate the player using their whiteboard paddle.
“Who’s most likely to claim to have been abducted by aliens?” Or “Who’s most likely to accidentally drop something in the toilet?”
Set contains: 100 Question cards, 6 Whiteboard paddles, 6 Dry-wipe pens, and instructions.
Part of the Professor Puzzle Games collection of unique family friendly party games.”
Are you ready for a game night full of laughter, embarrassment, and moral dilemmas? Look no further than Professor PUZZLE’s “Most Likely to” Game!In this hilarious family game of shame, players will be faced with a series of outrageous and embarrassing scenarios. Each player will secretly vote on who they think is “most likely to” do each scenario. The results will be revealed, and the player with the most votes will have to face the consequences.
From who is most likely to eat all the leftovers in one sitting to who is most likely to embarrass themselves at a family gathering, this game will have you rolling on the floor with laughter. But be warned, some of the scenarios may reveal more about your family members than you ever wanted to know!
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Cricket fans are lamenting the lack of Tests that Scott Boland has been able to play in his career after the Victorian destroyed India at the SCG on Friday. Boland took 4-31 off 20 overs – going at just 1.55 per over – as Australia bowled the tourists out for just 185.
In 13 career Test matches he has 50 wickets at an extraordinary average of less than 19. There were stunning scenes at the SCG on Friday when the Sydney crowd gave Boland a standing ovation as he headed down to the boundary at one stage.
As Brad Haddin pointed out in commentary for Triple M, it was a rare sight to see a Sydney crowd give such adoration to a Victorian. The Test team has predominantly featured NSW bowlers Pat Cummins, Mitchell Starc and Josh Hazlewood for the better part of the last decade, meaning Sydney crowds have rarely seen paceman from outside their home state.
Scott Boland drew a standing ovation from the SCG crowd. Image: Channel 7/Getty “Everyone in NSW is on their feet for a Victorian, this is a rare day,” Haddin said. “Scotty Boland once again, he puts pressure on the new batsman and makes them play.”
The roar of the crowd was deafening when Boland dismissed Rishabh Pant and Nitish Kumar Reddy in consecutive balls, and even more so when he steamed in for the hat-trick ball. He narrowly missed three-in-three, but the reaction and Boland’s performance will make him hard to drop when Hazlewood is fit again.
Scott Boland had the Sydney crowd on their feet – a rare sight for a Victorian. (Photo by SAEED KHAN/AFP via Getty Images) Cricket fans lament ‘shame’ of Scott Boland’s Test career
At age 35, time is running out for the Victorian. As many have pointed out, he would have played many more Tests if he wasn’t playing in an era where Cummins, Starc and Hazlewood have dominated with such longevity.
Starc has taken 373 Test wickets, while Hazlewood has 279 and Cummins 289. The pace cartel have hardly missed any Tests in the last decade, meaning Boland hasn’t been given the opportunity he deserves.
West Indian great Ian Bishop wrote on social media on Friday: “Absolute pity that Scott Boland could not debut in Test cricket until he was nearly 33 years of age.” Another pundit wrote: “Scott Boland could legit be one of the best pace bowlers of all time. Its a shame he started in the Australian team at an advanced age (for a fast bowler).”
Scott Boland has been on fire today! His spell was pure brilliance, and the SCG crowd gave him the respect he truly deserves! #AUSvIND #Boland
— Explorer (@explorer732) January 3, 2025
Absolute pity that Scott Boland could not debut in test cricket until he was nearly 33 years of age.
— Ian Raphael Bishop (@irbishi) January 3, 2025
sport has adopted this archaic outlook. Boland is never seen to have been dropped when Hazelwood plays. The way Boland is playing, some might say he deserves the spot more than Hazelwood in some venues. But, if their 3 pacers are fit and fine, Boland doesn’t play. (Cont)
— Agnimitra Roy (@AgnimitraRoy) January 3, 2025
Scott Boland could have been one of the greatest bowlers of this generation in Australia, but he was born in the wrong era and did not get enough opportunities
He is an absolute freak and completely unplayable in Australia. #INDvsAUS #Boland pic.twitter.com/e0ESTFJ7uE— CSKIAN_07 (@Cskian7781) January 3, 2025
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Calls for Scott Boland to remain in Australia’s first-choice XI
Boland’s 4-31 on the opening day in Sydney not only put Australia on the path to regaining the Border-Gavaskar Trophy, but it potentially extended his own Test career. There’s a compelling case for him to be part of Australia’s first-choice XI moving forward, even when Starc, Cummins and Hazlewood are all fit.
In the past 60 years, the only Australian fast bowler to play beyond his 36th birthday is Glenn McGrath. Boland will reach that mark in April, and he could join McGrath if he’s picked for the Ashes next summer.
Scott Boland took his 50th Test wicket at an average of less than 19. (Photo by Morgan Hancock – CA/Cricket Australia via Getty Images) With Hazlewood injured and Cummins likely to skip the upcoming Sri Lanka tour due to the birth of his second child, Boland will remain in the Aussie XI alongside Starc and two spinners. But selectors will face a tricky call for the likely World Test Championship final in June and the Ashes next summer.
“He’s a difficult customer, Scotty,” teammate Beau Webster said after play on Friday. “If there is anything in the wicket he finds it. And if there is nothing in the wicket he still manages to find a way through.
“He’s been fantastic this whole series when he’s got his chance. He is relentless. His line, length and natural angle makes it really hard. He can bowl long spells and back up the next day, he’s just been superb.”
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Australian cricketer Scott Boland’s incredible performance at the Sydney Cricket Ground (SCG) left the crowd in disbelief as they were forced into an unthinkable move amid great ‘shame’. Boland’s outstanding bowling display against England in the Ashes series saw him take 6 wickets for just 7 runs, leaving the English batsmen in complete disarray.The SCG crowd, predominantly supporting the Australian team, was left in awe of Boland’s remarkable feat. As he continued to dismantle the English batting lineup with his impeccable bowling, the crowd couldn’t help but show their appreciation for his outstanding performance.
In a rare display of sportsmanship, the SCG crowd, known for their passionate support for the Australian team, was forced into a moment of silence as they witnessed Boland’s exceptional skills on the field. Despite their loyalty to the home team, the crowd couldn’t help but acknowledge the brilliance of Boland’s bowling and the sheer dominance he displayed against the English side.
As Boland continued to take wickets with ease, the SCG crowd found themselves in a state of ‘shame’ for underestimating the talent and ability of the Australian bowler. The unthinkable move of silence and respect shown by the crowd towards Boland was a testament to his exceptional performance and undeniable talent on the field.
Scott Boland’s incredible display at the SCG not only earned him accolades from fans and critics alike but also forced the crowd into a moment of introspection, realizing the importance of acknowledging and appreciating extraordinary talent, regardless of team allegiances. It was a humbling experience for the SCG crowd, who were left in awe of Boland’s exceptional bowling and sportsmanship.
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The Simple Guide to Understanding Shame in Children: What It Is, What Helps and
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How to Support Your ChildShame is a powerful emotion that can have a significant impact on children’s mental and emotional well-being. Understanding what shame is, how it manifests in children, and how to support your child through feelings of shame is crucial for parents and caregivers.
What is Shame?
Shame is a negative emotion that stems from feelings of inadequacy, unworthiness, or embarrassment. It is often triggered by a perceived failure or mistake, whether real or imagined. Children may experience shame in response to a variety of situations, such as being scolded by a teacher, failing a test, or being teased by peers.
How Does Shame Manifest in Children?
Children may exhibit a variety of behaviors when experiencing shame, including:
– Avoidance: Children may try to avoid situations or activities that trigger feelings of shame.
– Withdrawal: Children may become withdrawn or isolated when they feel ashamed.
– Aggression: Some children may lash out or act aggressively when feeling ashamed.
– Low self-esteem: Shame can erode a child’s self-esteem and self-worth, leading to feelings of inadequacy and unworthiness.What Helps Children Overcome Shame?
There are several strategies that can help children overcome feelings of shame:
– Validate their feelings: Let your child know that it’s okay to feel ashamed and that everyone experiences these emotions from time to time.
– Encourage self-compassion: Help your child develop self-compassion by reminding them that everyone makes mistakes and that it’s important to be kind to themselves.
– Foster a growth mindset: Encourage your child to view failures and mistakes as opportunities for growth and learning.
– Promote open communication: Create a safe space for your child to talk about their feelings and experiences without judgment.
– Model healthy coping mechanisms: Show your child healthy ways to cope with feelings of shame, such as practicing mindfulness, engaging in physical activity, or talking to a trusted adult.How to Support Your Child Through Shame
As a parent or caregiver, there are several ways you can support your child through feelings of shame:
– Listen actively: Take the time to listen to your child’s feelings and experiences without interrupting or judging.
– Offer reassurance: Reassure your child that they are loved and valued, regardless of any mistakes or failures they may have experienced.
– Encourage problem-solving: Help your child identify ways to address the situation that triggered their feelings of shame and develop a plan for moving forward.
– Seek professional help if needed: If your child is struggling with persistent feelings of shame or if their behavior is impacting their daily life, consider seeking support from a mental health professional.By understanding what shame is, how it manifests in children, and how to support your child through feelings of shame, you can help them develop healthy coping mechanisms and build resilience in the face of adversity. Remember, it’s important to validate your child’s feelings, foster self-compassion, and promote open communication to help them navigate through feelings of shame effectively.
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